When you go through a breakup, it can be an emotional time. However, if you feel like the breakup was a mistake and you want to get back together with your ex, use these tips to make them miss you like crazy.
Regardless of who ended the relationship, you may still have feelings for your ex. That’s completely normal! Not every breakup is meant to be permanent. If you want to make your ex miss you, you should ask yourself why. Is it because you are still in love with them? Is it because you want them to feel guilty for breaking your heart? The tips below will only help if you want your ex to miss you so they take you back. If you want revenge, unfortunately, this post won’t be very helpful
It’s much easier than you may think to make your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend miss you. Who wouldn’t miss you? You’re a delight to be with! However, what will prove to be more difficult is keeping them in your life. When you have already endured one breakup with your significant other, it can be hard to regain trust and build a solid relationship.
Before you read the tips below to reuniting with your ex permanently, it’s important to remember this: The first step to winning your ex back is making them miss you. If your ex misses you, it means that they are constantly thinking about you, wondering how you are, wondering who you’re with…the more they miss you, the more they will want you back in their life. But how do you make them miss you? More importantly, how can you make them miss you enough for them to want to mend the relationship? If you want to get back with your ex for good, here are some tips that can help.
WAIT ONE MONTH
Relationship consultants around the world recommend this tip to their clients. The formal name is the “contact ban.” Experts call this a contact ban because you are quite literally forbidden to speak to your ex for a certain period of time- if you want them to miss you deeply. When you remove yourself from your ex’s life suddenly, the higher the chances are that you will be on their mind. Experts recommend different time periods for this contact ban, depending on the client, the details of the client’s ex-partner and the nature of their relationship. However, a good time period to wait is 3-6 weeks. After almost two months, it’s safe to reach out to your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend again.
The reason the time period might seem so long is because you want to make your ex think that you’ve moved on. If you reach out to them immediately after your breakup, you will seem desperate. No one wants to get back together with someone who is needy and clingy.
If you stick to the contact ban for a minimum of one month, you will be able to tell your ex’s true feelings for you. More likely than not, they will be the desperate one- begging to talk to you and get your attention. The contact ban can be difficult for you to uphold because you are naturally going to miss your ex. However, this is the most important step in making them miss you and get back together with you. The second most important step is making it seem to your ex that the contact ban had no affect on you and that you have happily moved on. This will drive them crazy!
TEXTS AND EMAILS ARE FORBIDDEN
When you commit to a contact ban, it means that you can’t see your ex in person, speak to them over the phone, or interact with them on social media. No emails, no comments, no texts, no calls. Nothing. If you communicate with your ex in any way, it will seem like there is no contact ban whatsoever and they won’t miss you because it won’t feel like you’ve gone anywhere. If you stick by your rule and don’t contact your ex, it will send the message that you aren’t their doormat. If your ex is the one that broke up with you, when you two reunite, they will keep this in mind and treat you much better than they had before.
AVOID VENTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Nowadays, as soon as something bad happens, our first reaction is to post about it on social media to share our story and even to receive sympathy. However, this is something that you absolutely shouldn’t do after a breakup if you want your ex to miss you! You will obviously be highly emotional after the breakup, but if you immediately vent about it on facebook, your “I’m happy and over it” facade won’t work. Keep your emotions off of social media and avoid rambling about it to friends- keep it to yourself! Word could spread quickly to your ex that you miss him and that will get in the way of your whole plan!
PUT ON A SMILE
The biggest slap in the face someone can receive after a breakup is that their ex is happy, successful and carefree. If you want your ex to miss you, then you need to give them this impression. The best way to spread the word about your happiness is via social media. Write and share posts that make it appear as though your breakup hasn’t impacted you in the slightest.
Post pictures of you having fun with friends, going on adventures and enjoying life! Showcase these pictures on social media networks like Facebook and Instagram and your ex is sure to see them…and get curious. They’ll wonder why you’re happy, assume you’re enjoying single life and just like that, you’ll be on their mind again. However, remember to avoid posting anything about your relationship- even things like “#singlelife” and “excited to be single again.” The point of these happy posts is to make your ex wonder why you’re happy and what the cause of it is. You should be giving off the impression that you’re having fun without him, not because of him.
SHOWCASE YOUR LIFE
If you want to be missed by your ex, it’s important that they think you are living a happy and productive life. Post pictures on social media of new clothes, a different hairstyle and of you going out with friends to dinner and parties. Life your life as though your ex is far from your mind- and they’re sure to come crawling back.
REACH OUT TO YOUR EX
After you have been practicing the above behaviors during your designated contact ban period, it’s time to break the silence. After a minimum of a month, chances are you’re both missing each other like crazy. However, the way that you reach out to them is very important. Start the conversation off casually by mentioning a fun memory of while you two were dating. Make sure it’s a simple memory like a favorite movie or song you two share in common. Maybe message them and say that you saw a clip of the movie or heard the song and thought of them. This is a great way to subtly initiate conversation because it starts off with a happy memory. However, avoid discussing the actual breakup at all costs!
When your ex responds, start swapping happy memories back and forth. Recall a certain dish you enjoyed at a restaurant date you two went on and link it to the breakup subtly. For example, you could say something like “The pizza at x just wasn’t the same as it was when we went together.” Make your ex really reminisce on your shared history.
This will undoubtedly make your ex want to see you again. But if they ask to hang out with you soon, claim that you already have plans and will let them know when you’re available. After about a week, message them and say that you’re free to hang out. In that week, they’ll be anxiously waiting by the phone for you to message and reminiscing on all of your good times together.
GET YOUR EX BACK BY MAKING THEM MISS YOU
The tips above are tried and true. Both relationship experts and real-life couples have found success by following these steps precisely. If you want to get your ex back, making them miss you is a proven way to do just that. The first step is to make sure that you’re on your ex’s mind by giving them the silent treatment, then make them miss you by bringing up the good times you had together. In no time at all, you’ll be reunited!
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