There are certain psychological techniques that are pretty much guaranteed to help you catch the attention of the guy you’re after. While effective, these methods are also discreet.
All you need to know is that these techniques appeal to your crush based on the psychology of men. You currently possess all the skills needed to follow these suggestions, so sit back and take a look at these tricks that are sure to get any guy interested in you.
While attractiveness and positive body language will play a role in the dating game, you’ll get the most out of using your sense and your intuition to guide you through the seduction process.
A Sense of Style
First things first, let’s take a look at your wardrobe choices. Expensive, brand name clothing are not, at all, necessarily to exude a sense of style. Put your best foot forward when you’re around him, and wear the items of clothing that make you feel the most self-confident.
Style is a personal, individual process and it shows your crush who you are inside. Whether wild, bohemian, classic or demure, your style says a lot about you. Don’t immediately go for every revealing piece of clothing in your wardrobe, leave a little something to the imagination. A more modest outfit shows that you take yourself seriously and demand respect. Modesty can be sexy as well.
A small amount of subtle fragrance will help him associate that sweet, light scent with your body.
The Longing Gaze
When you’re around your crush, send flirtatious glances his way. Don’t be overly obvious or nerdy, just send a subtle smile here and there, and be sure to make eye contact when possible and opportune.
It is said that eyes have always been used as a tool of seduction.
Add a little strategy to this plan, making sure you don’t end up ogling for minutes on end. A quick glance here and there will allow you to remain mysterious.
Flaunt Your Assets
You don’t have to be cocky to realize which are your best qualities. You know when you’re better at one activity than another, or more productive or accomplished in certain areas of your life. Don’t be afraid to flaunt your stuff!
Make a list of what you most like about your mind, body and personality, and use them to your advantage. If you know you have a good sense of humor, try telling him a joke or two. If you’re particularly proud of your muscular arms, you could challenge him to an arm wrestling match.
Show off in a flirtatious, teasing and humble manner. No one likes a self-centered know-it-all, but it’s ok to be proud of your talents and achievements.
Thank You For Being a Friend
There is a misconception that women like men who are jerks and men are attracted to women who are a little nutty. The truth is, we’re attracted to confidence, and this is a trait often found in the arrogant and the eccentric.
We really want someone who can make a great friend as well as a partner. When you spend enough time with your significant other, they become your best friend. Showing him that you can be a good friend to him now will forge a bond between the two of you, and make any attraction more likely to blossom.
In addition, show that you’re a good friend to others. You shouldn’t be badmouthing or taking advantage of your peers in the first place, but these are actions that will definitely turn your crush off.
Put on a Happy Face
We can’t be charming and lovely all the time, and sometimes we simply have a bad day here and there. It’s ok to be yourself and acknowledge these feelings, but try not to be an endless bummer around your crush.
Have you ever met those people who constantly complain about life, sure that all of humanity is against them and nothing good could ever happen to them, ever, not once? They really aren’t fun to be around.
Of course, this is a dramatic example, but you get the gist. Be pleasant and friendly around your crush! Sometimes, especially when we are nervous or unsure of what to talk about, we bond by complaining. It’s a part of human nature.
If you talk about uplifting subject and how grateful you are with you life, however, you will appear much more attractive and he will likely want to spend more time around you, soaking in your positive energy.
Send a Compliment or Two
You might assume that men don’t appreciate compliments as much as women do, but this isn’t the case. Men like to be complimented on the time they took to groom themselves, both mentally and physically, just as much as women do. They may not express gratitude with as much enthusiasm, but a little flattery can go a long way,.
If you feel uncomfortable giving compliments to men, start practicing immediately. In fact, give compliments to everyone! You don’t have to be fake, find something that you genuinely enjoy about their outfit, personality or talents and hobbies, and simply tell them about your fondness for it.
You’d be surprised how much good a small compliment can do.
You don’t need to send an endless borage of compliments his way, but when you notice something that you like, point it out.
Physical Space
Both light touches, and spending time near him, are ways to show that you are attracted to him, as well as entice him. Light grazes and small pats on the arm are enough to get the job done, you don’t want to make him uncomfortable in any way.
Small touches can send synopsis firing and create an arousing tension that will leaving him wanting more.
Spending time with him will allow him to get to know you better, as well as show him that you’re interested. Don’t act clingy or demand his attention, but don’t be afraid to accept an invitation from him or his friends either.
Mirror His Actions and Attitude
One of the easiest ways to make people feel comfortable in your presence is to mirror them. Imitate his body language and general vibe to make him feel at ease.
This works on a subconscious level, but it makes sense when you think about it. If you are feeling kind of groggy and tired, it can feel irritating if someone around is bouncing all over the place. If you are happy and jovial, it can be upsetting when someone is being a total bummer.
Just follow his lead to set the mood.
Maintain the Mystery
While you want to flirt and subconsciously let him know that you’re into him, remain mysterious as well. You want to divulge some information, and let him get to know you, but don’t give everything up immediately.
You want him to remain curious about you, even long after you two become an item.
These tricks will help you lure in your crush, as long as you use them!
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