Do you have a first date coming up? Are you nervous about being able to get the woman to like you? Don’t worry! There are many tested tips to get a woman to like you and want a second date. In fact, some of these tips can even lead to true love!
If you meet the woman of your dreams, you don’t want to mess it up. Getting ignored, or even worse- friend-zoned- could shatter all possibilities of a relationship with her. So don’t let that happen! Instead, you need to put in extra effort to get her attention and keep her interested. But how do you make a good first impression and inform her of your intentions without coming off too strong? The true secret to seducing a woman is in the details. Women notice even the smallest details of your behavior; that’s what captures their attention. Here are some ways to make everything about you- down to the smallest detail- get a woman to like you:
HAVE GOOD POSTURE
Have you ever seen someone with terrible posture? Someone who sits hunched over with their head down? It’s not a great look, is it? Posture is one of the first things anyone noticed when they meet you and it’s definitely something that a woman looks out for. When approaching the girl you like for your first date, stand up straight with your head held high. Someone with good posture is immediately attractive. Also remember to keep eye contact with her and smile as you greet her. Keep your walking pace at a normal speed so you don’t seem lazy or too eager.
SHOW YOUR TALENTS
Women love talented men. Anyone with a talent is immediately interesting, but most women find men with talents particularly sexy. Never pass up an opportunity to tell the women you’re on a date with about your talents and interests. However, be careful not to brag or overwhelm her. There’s a fine line between having pride and having a huge ego. Women don’t like show-offs. When the conversation naturally drifts to hobbies, bring up the fact that you play the piano or enjoy snowboarding. Regardless of your specific talents, the fact that you have something that you are passionate about will make a stellar first impression.
SPEAK CAREFULLY
Your level of confidence and courage will show through in how you speak. This is something that women pay close attention to- especially on a first date. Be sure to speak clearly and loud enough to assert your dominance- in an unobtrusive way. You may be worried that your voice will shake because of your nerves, but just focus on speaking in the same casual tone that you do with your friends.
BE ATTENTIVE
When a man ignores a woman on a date, that’s a clear sign to her that you aren’t polite. When you are on a public date with her, don’t get distracted by anything or anyone else. Focus all of your attention on her so she knows that you’re interested. Listen carefully so that you can participate in the discussion because that shows a woman that you are kind and caring.
BE PLAYFUL
While there’s a time and place to be serious during a first date, make sure not to be too serious. This can give off the impression that you are uptight or don’t know how to have fun. To break up any tension, be playful with her! Tease her gently or banter so that she knows you can have fun. Women are attracted to men who have a great sense of humor and know how to flirt. By doing both of these things on your first date, you are guaranteed to get the woman to like you and want a second date.
BE FUNNY
The way to a woman’s heart is through laughter. The most effective way to secure a second date with the woman you like is by making her laugh. If she has a smile on her face throughout your entire date, you’re doing something right. A sense of humor can make any man attractive- don’t let yours go to waste! A man who can laugh at himself and make others crack a smile, as well, is a keeper. You can make her laugh in so many different ways. Crack a joke, tell her an awkward story about your childhood or playfully tease her about something cute. With an attitude like this, there will be no awkward tension or too-serious conversations on your first date, which can encourage her to want a second date with you. Someone who can see the good in everyone, laugh about anything and be positive are extremely attractive to all women.
FINAL TIPS TO GET A SECOND DATE
All of the above tips can get a woman to like you on your first date, but how can you be sure to get a second date with the woman of your dreams? You may assume that the answer to this question is complicated, but it really isn’t! Instead of worrying that she’ll laugh at you or be cruel if you ask to see her again, focus on the positives. A second date is very important, but it won’t be hard for you to get if you follow these tips:
- Be unique: Many men opt for a casual restaurant or cafe for a first date; but just because everyone goes there doesn’t mean it’s the ideal place for a second date! It’s important that you prove to the woman you like that you can be interesting and unique. To secure a second date, why not try somewhere different? Make the second date fun by visiting a zoo, going to an amusement park or trying some tasty snacks at a street food festival. Find exciting events or locations in your city that are a bit out-of-the-box for a first date. It will pay off!
- Create chemistry: For some, love at first sight is a reality. However, for most of us, love is something that develops over time. What’s important is that you take the time needed to build chemistry with your prospective girlfriend. If you two have things in common, that’s a great start. Use that to build a foundation for your chemistry. Spend extra time together, flirt, gently brush her hand with yours, sit close together…all of these things can help the chemistry between the two of you develop. However, be careful not to overwhelm her by being too touchy.
- Remember the first date: First dates are typically when you find out the basic information about who a person is, what they do and what they like. When you go on a second date, use information from the first date to start a conversation. It’s impossible for you to have nothing to talk about! Don’t be shy to talk about your first date- even to laugh about any awkward moments that may have happened.
- Keep it light: The second date isn’t the time to delve into deep, serious or problematic topics. You two don’t know each other well enough yet. You should focus on making your date feel comfortable and wanted. Don’t bring up touchy subjects like past relationships, politics and religion. There will be time for all of that once you two get to know each other better.
- Be nice: In general, girls tend to be more sensitive than boys. Do everything in your power not to make your date feel nervous. Encourage her to relax and enjoy the moment. Be honest and kind, always. If you feel like the second date went well, be sure to let her know! No woman likes to wonder whether their date had a good time. Let her know that you had a great time and would like to see her again. Sincerity, honesty and kindness are always attractive features.
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